You need to learn to take even more time for yourself. It is so easy to fall into the habit
of gearing your whole life and all your energies to your children. While they
certainly should be the primary focus of your attention, they shouldn’t be your
only focus. That is not healthy for you or your children.
Make sure you arrange your schedule so you can take even more time for yourself each day and each week. This is especially true when you are a single parent. If you don’t make time for yourself, you would be exhausted, resentful, and unable to provide
clear guidance and directions for your children. You have to learn to take care
of yourself in order to be able to care happily for the rest of your family.
Schedule time for yourself from the very beginning. Sit down each week with your calendar and figure out when you can take some for yourself and write it in on the calendar.
Schedule your time off at the same each day and each week so you get into the habit of it.
Don’t underestimate benefits you can get from taking even five minutes several times a day to stop and rest. Deep, deep, deep breathing for a couple of minutes helps too, as a step into the sunshine for a bit and simply basking in the light and fresh air.
Use the quiet period at the end of the day after the rest of the family has gone to bed to relax, listen to some soft music, and slowly wind down.
If you are a morning person, get up earlier in the morning before everyone else in the house — having even a half an hour to drink a cup of tea in solitude will make a
difference.
Take some of your quiet time to figure out what you have been missing: reading, napping, taking a walk, exercising, or visiting with a friend and make the adjustments.
Making even more time for and taking care of yourself is not only important for your own health and self-esteem, it is also an important example to set for your children.
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